1st Skating Race
So last week I posted an update about the upcoming race that I wanted N to participate in here - don't want to race The race was on Sunday. In spite of me assuring her that this is an experience and I am ok even if you don't win... Till Thursday she was furious and mad at me cos I was "making" her participate. Friday before class I left all irritation and anger outside the door when we walked in home from school and spoke to her. "N, you have 2 choices. 1- kick,cry, whine, be mad and take part in the race . 2 - take it easy, think this is an experience, enjoy the process and take part in the race ." Needless to say, the sorted part of her brain agreed to the 2nd. She interacted with her coach about the race after diligent practice and we came home. Saturday whole day was enjoyable at a friend's new home lunch party with friends and fun. She was reluctant & tired but didn't put up a fight when i asked her to practice a little in t...